i have suffered from depression.. a lot. its really horrible.
no i never had have an eating disorder.
yes.. i cut myself. im not addicted to it but whatever.
so this is a very tricky thing to deal with when a loved one cuts themself.. if shes addicted to it you need to get her to stop, its unhealthy and dangerous. she will probably be mad but in the long run she will appreciate you helping her. if she does it just occasionally like i do.. i do it to relieve stress, numb pain, im not proud of it but whatever.. then i really wouldnt stop her, she will stop herself.. if she can control herself with a razor i can’t see a problem but if she is getting out of hand you have to get her to stop.
alright, i have friends who hate their body.. i never give argue on what they say but i always say encouraging things
” if you hate your body so much do something about it.. i will help you with anything “
“i can’t do anything about it i keep trying and nothing works”
” if it is making you so miserable why stay miserable, its only going to make you feel better if you try and you can succeed! i know you can. “
thats what i would say.
another thing you should know depression swallows who you are.. when i go through it i dont even want to be happy.. i’d rather feel nothing but i always pull myself out of it cause im a strong person. some people aren’t as strong.
mainly, always be encouraging and if you love your friend DO NOT give up on her even when she pushes you away. give her space.. but do not give up.
Anonymous: Have you ever, or do you now suffered from depression, eating disorders, or self harm? Is it hard to get over? And how do I help a friend who is cutting herself and hates her body?
